O.k., I'll be the first to admit that being psychically "tuned in"  can have you sometimes feeling a bit uneasy or unsure of what's what, what's really going on here??  It also doesn't help that there is a built in bias in our culture that clearly condemns anything having to do with newage this or psychic that. 

So what is a psychic impression anyway?   For me it's a feeling about a person or a situation.  In a reading I "channel" impressions by being open to them and allowing them to come through me.   I personally do not believe in "psychic powers".  Rather, I believe in psychic open-ness.  There's a difference there you see.   I've also heard and read that the more you're open to psychically, the more psychic energy and impressions will come to you.  I suppose it's like any skill that's crafted over time.

Anyway, the real point I'd like to touch on here is that having to do with having a psychic feeling and NOT fighting it.   The point is that you are NOT crazy for being psychic although the experience of being psychic can perhaps feel unsettling and to some a little scary because you're dealing with the unknown.  But I contend, isn't that what much of life is filled with: the "unknown" ?

My advice to all who are exploring the psychic levels of their minds and hearts is to find a constructive outlet for your psychic-ness.  Doing private readings in public chatrooms can be a good way to utilize your talents and I can almost guarantee that you'll have people wanting readings virtually in any chatroom anywhere at most any time!!!

You can also keep a log of impressions that come to you, and keep track of accuracy in terms of the outcome of events by writing that down too.

In other words, find a "home" for your psychic skills.  A safe place of support for you to explore this very special part of you that can give so much to other people.  But one other word of advice is to practice ethics when reading for others.  Be aware that anything you say can be taken as fact or perhaps never forgotten.  For this reason I recommend mentioning in your readings that nothing is etched in stone and that you are simply expressing your own impressions about the situation.

Good luck on your psychic journey!  Enjoy who you are and the blessings you have within you every day!

Lisa Valentine

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" Hello Lisa it has been a month now since I saw David and I have not heard a thing from him. I have tried to control my feelings but I have to admit that I have sent him alot of e-mail since then and I got to ontrol myself with him because I do not want to push him away. Can you tell me what is going on with him and I know I need to relax about this whole thing but I am getting older and I am lonely but maybe he is not the one for me I just get so pushy sometimes and I should not be and I try hard to control myself. Oh well whatever you can do to enlighten me would be helpful...Thanks, Arlene..."

Hi Arlene,

I'm ready to do the reading for you now regarding my impressions about David. Compared to the last reading, he still has concerns and worries, however does appear to be a little less stressed than before, just a little more relaxed. But he does carry a burden on a mental level. Guilt in particular perhaps connected with his family. He tends toward negative cautious thinking whereas you are much more open and optimistic, and interested in new, fun, & exciting things!

So his nature, the way he deals with situations is very different from you.But if you're willing to step back a bit and understand that this man is more inward, more of a worry wart, not as "ready" to move forward and make changes toward a new relationship as you are. You are like sunshine to him, however and I do believe that he "bathes" in your energy, your optimism.

What I would recommend for you to do is to see how wonderful you are, how bright your energy is, and what a gift you can offer to someone else. Listen, there are many people in "darkness" out there who would love to bathe in some of your light!!! Enjoy who you are and find some other people to connect with right now, some other people who'll appreciate you, so you won't be driving yourself crazy, waiting for this guy to come home to you!!

"I want it now" I hear you say, so yes, you most certainly know what you want and are going for it!! But in as much as you are very certain about what you want, he has reservations about EVERYTHING. He does not move easily through life, and I would say tends to labor over hi decisions, perhaps never fully resolved about his choices, and always looking to be "convinced".

Worry, worry, worry, that's him!!!

I do feel like he may be taking care of some of those things I mentioned in a previous reading, so he's where he needs to be right now.But you're not off his mind, or out of his heart. You've just got to trust that the connection you feel with him is bigger than either one of you as individuals. Being aware of this can help take the burden off of you to get this thing moving. This "thing" has it's own energy, it's own life.

Waiting around for someone, or living in the "what if" mode is wasteful of your time and energy. This "relationship" is NOT all up to you. He may have trouble expressing verbally how he feels about you however. So his "cues" may be more subtle. Nonetheless, it IS his responsibility and NOT yours to put in his 50% into this relationship in order for it to thrive.

I know that you feel very bonded to him, so the idea of spending time with other people, especially romantically may be out of the question for you. Well, you'll know when/if the time is right for you to reach out to another. All I'm saying is enjoy your life and let come in what is "right" and what works. I'd say spend time with friends at least and have yourself a good time! Also, continue to work on any creative endeavors, because you will find nurturing there.

I feel like this relationship may start to "solidify" within 2-3 months from now. If I may be so bold to suggest, I do feel that he loves you and needs you.

Well, I hope that this reading has been of some help to you. You hang in there and continue to be the wonderful, alive person you are. As I said previously, many people would benefit by being around you!!!

Enjoy your life! You deserve it!!!

All my sincerest best wishes,

Lisa Valentine

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